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SIDS INFORMATION FOR PARENTS
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CHILDREN LOVE LIGHT AND COLOR
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I hope that this site will help comfort parents that have lost a child to sids. And I also hope that it helps new parents find help on how to prevent a babies death. Why give great life to a baby then take it away so suddenly? SIDS is not something that you can give a baby a shot or a pill to cure. It something that doctors can find no reason for the death of the baby. If you have lost a child to sids I know what you feel but don't know how you feel. Too many people lose their babies to sids. I have lost my baby girl JENNIFER to sids. But, how I feel and how you feel is something different or maybe the same. How someone feels will never be the same. I loved my baby that I lost and I know that anyone that see's this site will feel the same for thier baby. I can't explain my feelings, can you? Love life and what part of you that is what created such a wonderful person. Love is what a baby is made of so think of that. The love will never end, even if the babies life does.
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WISH SHE WAS HERE OR I THERE
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My baby girl was born Aug. 7th, 1998. She was born 7 lbs 7 oz. She passed away on Sept. 26th. when she was just 7 weeks old. Jen was a pretty and charming little girl. Everyone who saw her was in love with her. The day that she passed away was a normal day. I was playing with her all mourning enjoying the little sunshine in my life. I tried to get her to sleep in her crib so I could get a couple of hours sleep before work. She was so happy that she wanted to keep playing so I laid her down to sleep next to me in the bed. She still laughed and played then she went to sleep next to me. Less than 3 hours later that was my last time I would hear her laugh. She passed away in her sleep with a smile stuck on her face. The doctors say that she forgot to do something that we all take for granted. She forgot to breathe. The doctor's told me that at least she passed away peacefully. I think that she will never go peacefully. For there is such torment and anguish left. Maybe I should have stayed awake, maybe I should have woke up earlier, maybe, maybe, maybe. There are so many different things that might have or could have been done so that she would still be with me and her mother. I have meet and talked to alot of people that have lost children or know of people that have lost children to sids. One father was holding his baby boy in his arms when the baby passed away. My baby was not the first or the last to die from SIDS. That does not make my pain any less. I wish that my daughter was still here for me to hold and kiss. She was my love and my joy. Now she is my empty void. She is like a beautiful sun, warm, giving, and light to all. Then she became like a black hole. She died and took all joy and happiness with her from my life. I wish that was with her now. She loved the light and the sky now she is apart of it. She was my light on the earth and now she is part of light in the sky. May she bring love and light to all that have passsed away before her. And maybe she was taken for a reason. What that reason is I don't know. Think of you life if you made some wrong turns in life what are they and what would you change? Life is short no matter how long you live. If you live to be over 100 or if you are never born there is a lose in the world from your passing.
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SIDS IS A DISEASE WITH NO CURE
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In the united states 1 out of 500 baies born dies from sids. That may seem a small number to some people. But, it isn't a small number to the parents of the one lost life. Thier is alot of talk about cancer, aids, and alot of other disease's. When is the last time that you heard about sids? Think about that. The number one killer of babies and there isn't alot of news about it. Why? Before my daughter was born I checked everything out in books and on the web that could go wrong with delevery and the first years of life. Not much was said about sids. I have since Jen's death found more info and sites that give help, comfort, and alot of information on this terrible killer. I hope this helps some of you in grief and helps prevent anouther loss. If one child is saved from this little site I will be very happy. Check out my links below for some great sids information sites. Sids will someday be stoped from taking away young life. Until then we can just hope pray and take some precautions to lower the odds. For to have lost a bay is to have lost your heart mind and soul. You love them you care for them. But, when you lose one you will always wonder what did i do wrong. Children are the keepers of our lives, loves, and hopes. To lose a baby is to lose all three. You lose your will to live, you lose your hope to give a better future to someone you love. And what is hope for a better future if you have to live it without the child that you have lost? Love your children because without them there is no life. Children are our future, past, and present. We love them and hope that the love us. Love and take care of them and you will be paid back by their smile and love for you.
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